Cosmopolitan: How To Start a Business With Your Bestie

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I’m very excited to share with you the cover story I wrote for the June issue of Cosmopolitan Magazine on the rules of business and friendship! As you know, this has been a hot topic in my life for the past few years, and I was definitely reluctant at first to share aspects of my personal journey in a more public way.

As I was going through the process of writing the piece, one of my favorite weekly newsletters, Women on Fire, landed in my inbox with the subject line “what’s your story?” In it, was an amazing quote that helped give me the shove I needed. Lori said: “If your story helps one person, it was worth telling it versus being safe and keeping it inside.”

I’m sure many of you who blog grapple with how to tell your story, and how much of your life to put on the virtual table. For the most part, I’m a pretty open book. And it’s because I share Lori’s sentiment. What are our twenties for if not to learn our life lessons the hard way? And what good are all those bumps in the road if we can’t learn from our mistakes and help others navigate the same obstacles? Continue reading

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The Balanced Diet: Chicken Paillard with Chopped Salad Nicoise

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When I was around 4 years old, my parents moved us to Paris. We weren’t there long, but if I’m connecting the dots, Steve Jobs-style, I would be remiss to discount the experience as anything less than an essential stepping stone in my food journey. I forgot the language quickly upon my return. But the smells stuck with me, and still do to this day – the roasting chestnuts, caramelizing sugar on the crepe griddle, and the bread. Oh, the bread. IMG_4182

But for all the sense memories, I rarely cook French food in my kitchen. It just feels too fussy, too pretentious. Hold the beurre blanc and just give me a wedge of lemon for my sole. However, there are two recipes that I’ve been wanting to highlight on this site for their ease and satisfaction. And today we’re killing both of those culinary birds with one stone (one, quite literally).

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Chicken paillard is thinly pounded chicken breasts that are then grilled. There are plenty of variations, but the central concept is fairly simple. Salad nicoise is one of my favorite main course salads. You’d think, given that I’m gluten-free and can’t have sandwiches on the majority of menus, that I’d eat more salads than I do. But it takes a special kind of salad to get my attention. So when Food Network gave us “salads with lettuce” this week as our theme, my mind went straight to Nicoise. And because the idea of eating just salad for lunch made my stomach want to eat itself, I immediately thought of combining the salad in some way with chicken paillard. IMG_4232 Continue reading

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Meatless Monday: Vietnamese Eggplant and Leek Lettuce Wraps

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I’m still on a bit of a high from the weekend. Saturday night I went to SNL with my dad. We both stayed up way past our bedtime to go to the after party following. During the show, I was giddy when Bradley Cooper came out for a surprise appearance, and perhaps irrationally even more excited when Jamie Lanister dropped in on a Game of Thrones skit that had Zach Galafenakis in full dragon costume. But the real excitement came at the after party, when for a total of 3.5 seconds, Jon Hamm’s smoldering eyes locked with mine and burnt a hole in my soul.

But onto the food…

I get invited to various cookbook and food press events all the time, but I rarely go to them unless I’m really excited by the product at hand. This was certainly the case last week when Prosciutto di Parma celebrated their anniversary at Osteria Morini and I got to eat Chef Michael White’s arancini and pile my plate high with 5 different ages of cured meat. It was also the case back in the fall when I got invited to the book party for Chef Charles Phan of Slated Door in San Francisco.

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I’d never been to the restaurant before and have heard amazing things. So I went out of my way to try his Vietnamese cooking (for free….!!) and bring home the book so I could try my hand at some of his recipes at a later date. I immediately went through and post-it-ed all the things I wanted to make, but still that date ended up being much later. A few weeks ago, in fact.

The best thing I ate at the book party was a smoky sweet eggplant and leek mixture served in bite-sized portions on small rice crackers. Since I never really know anyone at these parties, I usually end up talking to the catering staff. The secret to this dish, according to one of the chefs, was that the eggplant was grilled. This is something I love doing when making baba ganoush, and I couldn’t wait to try it for a dish in the pan-Asian category.

I’ve been chomping at the bit to be back near a grill. Now finally, Memorial Day seems like it’s around the corner. I made this eggplant-leek dish on my stove-top grill. You can also easily roast the veggies if you aren’t yet ready to walk outside to make dinner. I ended up serving the mixture as an entrée inside lettuce wraps with a little jasmine rice to round out the meal.

The cookbook is great if you’re into Vietnamese food and love fish sauce as much as I do. I’ve been dying to make traditional rice crepes for this blog and there’s a good one in the book, so stay tuned for those as well.

Happy Meatless Monday!

Xo
Phoebe

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Vietnamese Eggplant and Leek Lettuce Wraps

Total Time: 30 minutes

Serving Size: 2-4

Vietnamese Eggplant and Leek Lettuce Wraps

Adapted from Vietnamese Home Cooking by Charles Phan. You can roast the veggies instead of grilling them. See notes.

Ingredients

  • 2 medium eggplant (about 1.5 pounds), sliced lengthwise ½ inch thick
  • 2 leeks, white and light green parts only, halved lengthwise
  • 1 bunch scallions
  • ¼ cup soy sauce
  • 2 tablespoons sugar
  • Juice of 1 lime
  • 1 teaspoon siracha or other Asian chile paste
  • ½ cup roughly chopped cilantro leaves
  • 1 head boston or bibb lettuce leaves
  • 2 cups cooked white rice

Instructions

  1. Set an indoor grill pan over a high flame or fire up a charcoal grill. Brush the eggplant with oil on both sides. Grill the eggplant in batches over high heat, rotating 90 degrees halfway through cooking, until soft and nicely charred, about 4 minutes per side. Remove to a plate to cool. Repeat the grilling process with the leeks.
  2. Trim the bottoms off the scallions, drizzle with oil, and grill until very wilted and nicely charred, about 2 minutes per side. Be careful not to let them slip through the grates.
  3. While the veggies are grilling, combine the soy sauce, sugar, lime juice, and siracha in a large mixing bowl. Whisk until the sugar is dissolved. Set aside.
  4. When the veggies are cool enough to touch, roughly chop them into 1 inch pieces. Add them to the soy mixture along with the cilantro and toss to combine.
  5. Serve the eggplant-leek mixture alongside the lettuce leaves and rice and allow guests to serve themselves.

Notes

Variation: if you don’t have a grill, you can roast the veggies in the oven. Omit the scallions. Cut the eggplant into 1-inch pieces. Toss with 2 tablespoons olive oil and turn out onto a parchment-lined baking sheet. Roast in a 425 degree oven for 30 to 40 minutes, until soft and deeply caramelized. Thinly slice the leeks and toss with another tablespoon of olive oil. During the last 15 minutes of cooking, add leeks to the pan with the eggplant.

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A Hungry Girl’s Guide to Nashville

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I may have missed the ball on getting you my snapshots of my trip to Nashville. But the good news is, that gave me time to put together a whole stinkin’ guide.

Ever since becoming mildly obsessed with the TV show, I’ve been wanting to go to Nashville to take in the tunes at the Bluebird Café and find Connie Britton in her trailer and convince her to be my best friend. Luckily, my current (real) best friend Sarah was right there with me and decided to choose the city as her bachelorette destination.

Our itinerary was planned by the Maid of Honor who, lucky for us, also just started a travel blog, Bon Voyaging. She beat me to the punch in writing up a mini guide to Nashville. I found this incredibly helpful in putting together the below, since in the land of bourbon and bacon, I may have accidentally forgotten to take a few brain cells home with me.

Even though we got there on Friday evening, and I left early Sunday, we managed to pack in an extraordinary number of things into our short stay – especially considering we spent 3 hours of our Saturday waiting in line for pancakes. We stayed at Hutton Hotel which was chic and cute, just as Gwenie promised it would be, and also perfectly located.

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Friday night we had dinner at Taco Mamacita, where the tacos were meh, but the margaritas were good and cheap. We bounced around to a couple places after we couldn’t get into the super trendy library-style speak easy, The Patterson House. If you go to Nashville, you should at least try to get in there, and then if you are a super geeky fan of the show, you should stroll down two doors. We are 90 percent positive this is where Scarlet and Gunner go to write their music. This area (Midtown) was less touristy and we loved that there was Loser’s Bar and Grill right next to Winner’s. Both had great live music without all the intensity of the Honky Tonks.

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Saturday morning we went to the much-acclaimed Pancake Pantry. We waited two hours in line to get in, then possibly another hour for our food, which may or may not have the waitress’ spit in it. Only a group of 10 New York girls would wait 2 hours for brunch at a pancake restaurant, then order egg white breakfast wraps with about 3 different requests and substitutions. Needless to say, we didn’t order right, but it was worth the wait for the mounds of pecan pancakes and buttery hash browns we got for the table.

Nashville1 We spent the rest of the day walking around to various vintage shops. Couldn’t quite tell what the name of the neighborhood was, but it had an awesome hipster-y vibe. And popsicles. The Las Paletas popsicles were amazing. We then moseyed back Downtown to check out the level of day drinking happening on Broadway. It was high to very high. Luckily there were other fun things to see like Hatch Print Shop and some crazy candy joints.

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That night we ate at Tavern which was serving one of the more ridiculously delicious bar snacks I’ve ever eaten: buffalo cauliflower. I’m definitely going to be recreating it for you guys sometime soon. Then, it was off to the Honky Tonks. The bars were a sweaty crowded mess. But after a few Taylor Swift covers, the sing-alongs made all the beer-down-the-back worth it. Continue reading

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The Balanced Diet: Radish and Basil Thai Fried Rice

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Fried rice is one of the few take-out delicacies I actually make more at home than I order off a menu. It’s actually the leftover rice from my much more frequent veggie green curry orders that gives me the impetus to make fried rice in the first place.

In the spirit of helping you find healthier ways of eating your favorite comfort foods, I wanted to share with you a Thai version of fried rice that I resort to often. There’s no soy sauce, which is nice for the gluten-free set. And, at least in my version, there’s no egg. As with most Thai food, it’s the fish sauce that gives the whole dish that certain something something that you can’t quite put your finger on.

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Back in high school, I spent a summer in Thailand. I ate fried rice and pad Thai three meals a day. They served it everywhere, at any time. And I have very vivid memories of eating rice out of a plastic bag at a gas station for breakfast. My favorite part of authentic Thai street cooking, and what sets it so far apart from what you’ll get at a restaurant here, is that they barely season their basic dishes. You’re expected to doctor your own plate to achieve that perfect mix of spicy, salty, sweet, and sour. At every table, there was a lazy Susan full of condiments for each of these categories. You rarely need to sprinkle sugar over your pad Thai in the States. But at the gas stations, I went to town.

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Fish sauce was always the condiment I ended up dousing my food with the most. It has a funky flavor, but you wouldn’t necessarily identify the fishiness if it wasn’t the sauce’s namesake. I add a lot of it to this radish and basil fried rice, and little else. And even though I’m usually just making it for myself, I like to serve fried rice with the bottle of fish sauce right next to me, alongside siracha and limes for those who need the added heat and tang. Continue reading

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Feeding Friends: Spring Tacos with Shrimp and Asparagus-Radish Leaf Pesto

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In my singledom, I’ve become a bit fanatical about my TV shows. This becomes borderline pathetic when one of those shows includes The Voice. In fact, I think studies have shown that sitting on the couch and watching both Monday AND Tuesday night of The Voice (even if you’re also hard at work pinning, photo editing, and doing other bloggy things) is one of the 5 signs of clinical depression. So it’s always a relief when not one, but two of my favorite shows inspires similar levels of obsession with my close friends, not to mention, the world.

Since Mad Men and Game of Thrones came back on a few weeks ago, I’ve been hosting Sunday TV night at my house. This is a very ambitious endeavor if your Saturdays are as work and fun filled as mine seem to be these days. (Who said I was actually depressed?). But the mid-hangover cooking and post-11pm cleaning always end up being worth it for all the nerdy wildling side commentary and collective swoons when Don Draper undresses the doctor’s wife.

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A few weeks ago, I was testing an asparagus-radish leaf pesto for my CBS Earth Day segment. I had made a gluten-free pasta dish for the premiere of GOT, and in order to avoid inflicting gluten-free pasta on my friends for a second week in a row, I decided to use it, along with the residual veggies, as part of a spring-y taco spread.

There was absolutely nothing Mexican about the ingredients that went into these tacos. I didn’t even make the effort to add a dash of cayenne or cumin to the pesto. But with a little dollop of sour cream and shrimp spiked with a bit of hot sauce, they seemed to work perfectly. You can of course find ways to further Mexify this meal, especially if you’re making the tacos for Cinco de Mayo. For the pesto, try adding a little bit of lime juice instead of the lemon, and cilantro instead of mint. But I wouldn’t be sharing the recipe with you today, if I didn’t think it was absolutely delicious in the most unexpected of ways.

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Now that I’m free of wedding weekends for a bit, I’ll be making up for lost time with my GOF/Mad Men screening nights. Stay tuned for more concoctions to come from them. Continue reading

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